Whoever Humbles Himself. The general instruction is generally not well received: “Know your place,” “Stay in your lane,” “Mind your own business.” The pride that is in each person often produces even more desire to buck conventional roles when told to maintain them. “Do not eat,” for instance, usually makes us want to eat nothing else but that which was prohibited. Instead of attacking human pride, humans usually attack the rule or the ruler. While this primal urge to revolt is celebrated as good, even enshrined as courageous, in the Lord’s created order pride is never good or courageous because it is the hostile intruder against peace. The Beatles might have lightheartedly sang, “I don’t know why you say, ‘Goodbye,’ I say, ‘Hello,’” but the Bible knows why: pride! “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall” (Prov. 16:18). Pride doesn’t endure being told what to do by authority.
Yet,
the result of pride doesn’t mollify pride. Like the churning of the sea, pride
isn’t ultimately happy when it gets its way; it always wants more. Pride is
insatiable because there is ever another hunt to begin, another conventionality
to shatter, another authority figure to topple.
The opposite of pride, therefore, is not external debasement but internal humility. Humility finds and enjoys what pride cannot locate or possess, namely peace with God and contentment under God’s sovereign rule. Humility, as seen through the lens of pride, is weakness. But humility, as seen through the lens of faith, is greatness. “Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven” (Matt. 18:4).
I had a pastor friend in another place who was gifted a late model Lincoln Towncar by one of his parishioners because he genuinely needed a new ride. But the gift caused this pastor grief. “It is too nice,” he said one morning at a coffee fellowship with other pastors. “What will the people in the church think seeing me drive this car into the church parking lot? A pastor should be poor.” Right there in his conclusion, it was clear that he was not talking about salary constraints but about his perception in the eyes of others. Trying to appear humble by driving a relatively frumpy car is just another variation of pride. Ah, but before I could cast the first stone, I was reminded of my own false piety in wearing only clothes from the Thrift Store.
Humbling oneself is not constructing an external façade but resting in an internal understanding that one doesn’t need a façade whatsoever. Pride reaches, even clamors for achievement; humility relaxes by faith in the peace of God and the provision from God.